Saturday, March 11, 2017

Someday

"And while you and the rest of your kind are battling together — year after year — for this special privilege of being 'bored to death,' the 'real girl' that you're asking about, the marvelous girl, the girl with the big, beautiful, unspoken thoughts in her head, the girl with the big, brave, undone deeds in her heart, the girl that stories are made of, the girl whom you call 'improbable' — is moping off alone in some dark, cold corner — or sitting forlornly partnerless against the bleak wall of the ballroom—or hiding shyly up in the dressing-room

— waiting to be discovered..and loved."

Saturday, December 31, 2016

OWARI: #366DayswithMaria

366/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Hooooooray for today! I made it! 😃

Honestly at first i thought i wont be able to complete this daily challenge that i put myself through. 😁 There are days when i cant think of anything to say, and days when i feel like writing all my feelings and make it all fit in one post. Many times i had too much hugot and #excusethstdamndamin thingy. Saaaaaahreeeee! 😂 Srsly, the first time that i wasnt able to post on time, i was soooo heartbroken (coz i wanted it to be the same exact day posting) but maybe there are those things that wont happen the way we expect them to be, that it should really happen the way theyre supposed to be. 👀

There are so many lessons that this 366 days journey had given me, realizations that awaken me and writeful thoughts i never thought i could let out and share. And one of the best thing ive learned is that when you really focus to do something (no matter how big or small) when you put your heart to it, you magically tend to push yourself to make it happen, regardless of what comes along the way, you still managed to stick to your goals and fulfill it. 🌻

To believe in oneself is really damn real. From the #366DayswithMaria i thought i wouldn't finish yet here i am on the very last day. It may be a little thing but for me, the big thing about this is i believed i can. I know better now, and so i'll always will. ❤

Thank you Blogger family for being with me the whole year! 😙

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                                                                                      Writefully Yours,

Friday, December 16, 2016

#366DayswithMaria: December

 336/366 🌻 #writefulthought

Its true that many things in this life catches our eyes, we get easily distracted by the shiny things, things (or even certain people) that instantly get our attention and interest us for a short time. Sometimes we wander far too long that we forget about our priorities and lose grasp of what our hearts held dear. So.. perhaps its best to keep an eye on what's important and keep on pursuing those few that truly captured our hearts. ❤


337/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Just maybe, its okay to look back to certain memories, the might-have-beens and all that, but its not wise to dwell on those things too much and eventually end up stuck. Choose to move forward. Go.




338/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Why yes, start with the necessary and do all that's possible. Just like they say, it doesnt matter how slow, as long youre moving. 🏃



 339/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Maybe, some things are meant to melt. Just as some feelings are better left to freeze so it wont hurt anybody, including yourself. 💔


340/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Coz sometimes, its much easier to hold it all in and be quiet than to speak up and be misunderstood. 🙊
But yes, i guess for the people who truly care for someone, they can hear even in silence and can easily perceive his/her thoughts and feelings, while for people who dont, even a thousand words wont suffice for them to fully understand what one have in mind, and wants to say. 🙉


341/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Life is terrifyingly beautiful, in a way that things just happen as it happens. And that it makes us a little happier and also a little sadder..whichever comes first, and usually it depends on the emotion we choose to feel. 😽


 342/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


But sometimes.."the most beautiful moments always seemed to accelerate and slip beyond one’s grasp just when you want to hold onto them for as long as possible." 


343/466 🌻 #writefulthought 

Maybe sometimes, we all get too busy with random stuffs and happen to overlook the significant matters. Perhaps it takes an interruption to be reminded of what's important. 🙉



344/366 🌻 #writefulthought


Yes you are.


345/366 🌻 #writefulthought

There will be that waking moment in life when we'll work hard to sort things out, as to keep those that matters to us and to finally discard the unnecessary. That time will come when we'll need to end certain things for good so we can have a better start. 🔚


346/366 🌻 #writefulthought

But sometimes, what goes unsaid between people tends to build up walls. Just like too many thoughts gets buried deep inside, things that are quite awkward to talk about and so on. And its either the bricks of things have to be knocked out or just let it keep stacking until eventually it falls apart. 👀


347/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Just because it gets broken doesn't mean it has no value anymore. When its important, you'll find a way to fix it instead of throwing it away.

 348/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Perhaps love is like a light in the darkness, even when you close your eyes to pretend you didnt see it, it will still be there and wont just easily disappear. 👀


349/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

"Perhaps that was the point; life, if you did it right, meant learning and changing. If you didn't, you died- or stopped growing - which amounted to more or less the same thing."



 350/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Because there are some things that even it is written or indicated, doesnt actually mean its true and existing, but we believe it anyway. 😑











351/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

"We make the decision to love everyday, whether we feel the magic or not. And it's really the decision that creates perseverance, not the feeling of love in itself, because sometimes, butterflies and sweetness do not suffice."


352/366 🌻 #writefulthought

Fight for what matters, dont give up on something you cant afford to lose. 💪




353/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


"One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone."


354/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


I guess, drinks are flavored to have a different taste, just as sometimes, truths are filtered to cover up for lies. 😑


355/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Coz sometimes, when you dont feel happy, the least you can do is try to smile


356/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

But we dont want anyone to walk in our shoes just for them to experience our joy and understand our pains. All we ever need is someone who's willing to walk beside us for the rest of our lives. 🐾



 357/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Learn to appreciate what's presently available and try to make the most out of it. You'll surely be surprised to gain something more than expected. 💪



358/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


"Sticking to one person for a lifetime is not a waste of time or lack of better ones, it means you've found your place of eternity."


359/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Coz its not really the fancy wrapper or the gifts itself, its still always the thought that counts the most. Thus, being remembered at this very busy season, is the most wonderful feeling ever no amount of money can buy. Whether there are gifts or just a simple greeting, it'll surely put a smile on anyone's heart. 🎁🎄 #writefullyyoursmaria


360/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

"Whatever you are physically -- strong or weak, ill or healthy--all those things matter less than what your heart contains. All those other things, they are the glass that contains the lamp, and you are the light inside." 🔥🔥🔥🔥


#ChristmasDay


361/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Coz sometimes, what we see is different from what is real and what we say out loud is not always the same as what's really on our minds. 👻




362/366 🌻 #writefulthought

"We don’t need a list of rights and wrongs, tables of dos and don’ts: we need books, time, and silence." 💕 "Thou shalt not" is soon forgotten, but "Once upon a time" lasts forever. 📚





363/366 🌻 #writefulthought

Its proven true that we have certain problems no matter how much we wanted to tell or ask help from anyone, we simply cant coz we feel that its much safer to hold it all in and just let it be resolved discreetly.. on its own time. ⏰




 364/366 🌻 #writefulthought

We probably tell ourselves that we dont have to care all the time. But its the same as love - its like closing your eyes, you cant see but you still can feel. Now, how do you unlove or uncare for someone..maybe you can..but you just dont, right? 😔



365/366 🌻 #writefulthought

Sometimes in life, we need a bridge to cross it so we can be on the other side and follow our heart desires, or burn it so we can no longer be tempted to go back and forth where we shouldnt be and completely cut off the connection that blocks out all the luck the universe wanted to give us. 🌎

Wednesday, November 16, 2016

#366DayswithMaria: November



306/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


“Actions speak louder than words; let your words teach and your actions speak.” -St. Anthony of Padua


307/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." -Anonymous


308/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Coz maybe some truths are hard to admit when the consequences are scary and may be very difficult to withstand.


309/366 🌻 #writefulthought

Everything changes in time.. but the people who truly loves you will always love you. ❤

310/366 🌻 #writefulthought

They say, "The early bird catches the worm." But sometimes, when we knew there are plenty of worms out there, we act slow and become picky, before we know it there will be no more worms left to get. 🙈

So maybe, its wise to not waste every single chance given to us and grab each opportunity that life has to offer. 💪



311/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Say hello and smile. 😊👋



312/366 🌻 #writefulthought


One can overcome any storms of life, no matter how hard all seem to be, just by choosing to be strong..always.💪

313/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Coz when you find yourself pushing on caffeine or sugar intake to keep going, then obvsly its the time you must have a break from what's keeping you awake and rest..even just for a while. 💤




314/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


It may be really hard to stop thinking about negative things sometimes, but the trick that could work is to make it go away as fast as it comes in and make no room for it no matter how forceful it is to stay.


315/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

They always say that "there are things out of our control." But i guess, there will also be these other few things from which we can freely choose, from big things like picking a name for a newborn baby/pets, selecting people we want to keep..etc, to little things as getting a preferred snack off the rack. 👀


316/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

"I am slowly coming to the conclusion that it’s more important to learn to work with what you’ve got, under the circumstances you’ve been given, than wishing for different ones." 🎂


317/366 🌻 #writefulthought


Once in a while, do cry your heart out. Embrace your emotions. Let your heart express all of those feelings.

 318/366 🌻 #writefulthought

But sometimes, when at the edge of something, the fear is not really about falling nor swimming against the tides, the real scary part is wanting to jump yet still thinking twice, aiming to take a big leap yet suddenly backing out. How terrifying is it to feel stuck? 👀

So just go. Move. Decide and put it all to action. 💪
319/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Coz maybe, each time you make a move, there's that panic feeling not knowing how the game of life will turn out for you, left wondering about the scale of disaster you put yourself into or most probably somewhat hopeful to be fortunate enough to succeed. ❌🔴❌🔴
320/366 🌻 #writefulthought

They say, "Sorry" is the most abused word, maybe because it loses its real meaning when one doesnt value the forgiveness given to them, when they still keep on repeating the same mistakes, continuing with their selfish, inconsiderate ways, then saying sorry over and over again and expecting they will always be spared. That it only creates an endless chain of misdeeds and brokenhearts. 😑

But on the brigther side, i guess, to really sincerely say "Sorry" is to feel the pain of others, taking a share of it and making real effort not to do such mistakes again. Yes its true that it wont always put things back the way it used to be, but still, it pushes things forward, it helps mend what has been broken, its more like refilling a hole and it bridges the gap and binds people together again. 👀



321/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

"Happily-ever-afters don't come in happily-every-days. They are found at the end of challenges-ever-met, promises-ever-kept, and tears-ever-wept." 💕




322/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Coz maybe there's a huge impact knowing there's people who believe in us - our capabilities, inner strength and power to outlast amything. Magically, it makes us believe in ourselves much more. 💪
 323/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

They say, "its sweet when someone remembers every detail about you", and i guess, its the sweetest whenever they see things that will make them think about you. Like wherever they go, even youre not with them, there are those of your favorite things (that has an invisible name tag on it) that automatically reminds them of you. 👀

Salamuch for remembering me in all the cat forms 😽🌻 (and sunflowers) you see. 😂 Im kilighappy when you say na naalala mko when you saw this. Aww its sweet and im veeeeeery surprised when i unwrap it. Tho you shouldnt have coz the thought itself made me feel really special and so blessed. As in! But thank you, its meowvelous! 😻



324/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

No matter how hard it is, life's still good. And perhaps its up to us to find our purpose in life, to work hard, appreciate everything, enjoy the moments of being alive and come to a realization how lucky we all are to have the chances this life has to offer. 💪



325/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Perhaps sometimes, we have to look around and be grateful of the little blessings that we have and moments that we share with people especially those who are close to our hearts. To be constantly appreciative of what we have instead of looking for something else that we dont and maybe cant have. 👀



326/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

"She had no need to ask why he had come. She knew as certainly as if he had told her that he was here to be where she was."
327/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

And to really wait for someone or something, requires a great deal of patience, willingness to bear uncertainty and to be persistent enough that no matter what happens, whether it arrives or not, everything will still be all right. ⌚




328/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Coz the little things are the sweetest. ❤



329/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Coz no matter how strong and independent we are, sometimes, we still do need help from other people. And as it happens, in some rare instances, all the help we needed is right there rushing toward us before we even run to ask for it. 🌈⛅🌞


330/366 🌻 #writefulthought

Perhaps we all have the best inside us and that even when we feel less sometimes, there will always be more to give. 👀

331/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Coz any kind of pure sweetness can surely make anyone feel loved, and also, it has that power to melt all worries and negative emotions away. 🍭



332/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Sometimes, things become so terribly complicated, as to situations has its different version of stories that it gets really confusing which ones to believe. 🙉

333/366 🌻 #writefulthought 

Just maybe, not every sweetness is what it seems to be, some are just deceptive, trying hard to be sweet -- not because they actually want to be sweet, but because its a need thats expected for them to be. 😡



334/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Coz theres a lot of story to tell, things to talk about, feelings to vent out and so on. Perhaps we all do have a lot to say but reality is, there's only few who'll really care enough to listen. 🙉



335/366 🌻 #writefulthought 


Just when you thought your life is falling apart, it could be, usually falling together in disguise. Like they always say, "Trust the process no matter how hard it seem to be." ~
It will all be worth it in the end. Youre going to be fine. 💪😊